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art - 2005-11-04 11:48:55
the one, the only, groucho marx shares my birthday!!! see, now you know why im nuts! hahhahaa!!!
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Shelly - 2005-11-04 12:50:47
I know its love when he's my first thought every morning, and my last thought every night... *sigh* i really miss those days...
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Katelyn - 2005-11-04 13:05:04
I know it's love when I can't get him off of my mind and I begin writing long letters to no one about him. Describing him. Why he's lovable. Why he is the way he is. How we met...
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G - 2005-11-04 13:05:34
I'm a toucher, too. One time we were in the Museum of Natural History (or Modern Art, I can't remember which) and I touched some 5th century silk thing from Japan (it was NOT encased in glass and NO sign said, "Duh, you idiot don't touch")... so I reached out, rather innocently, and set off the alarm. Not just THAT alarm, but ALL of the alarms. We split up and met later on by the soda machines out front. ---> I was NEVER caught, but I'm sure that they have my picture hanging somewhere in that museum.
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Pfirsich - 2005-11-04 13:23:13
Hey Nicim,so,you mean how you know if the guy loves YOU,or how you know if you love the man-cause,isn�t that irrelevant? The man chooses the girl. Like,as a girl you can�t pick noone,you can just say no. Right? So,wouldn�t the only important question for a girl how she knows it�s love,meaning if the guy loves her?---And now don�t tell me such little things like when he brings you cocoa to the bed!! Please,not talking about a child-grownup relationship now.---Isn�t it construction wise like this:The girl catches and magnifies the thoughts,the content of the man? Like,the man is the head,and the girl the body?--I mean:fact is,a girl can love any man.Cause they are loving people.As a mum,you can also love any kid.Not only if they are smart or like sports or whatever.---Love hits us like thunder.Right? ----Well.I personally just figured it�s like the hugest luck if you meet a person who even fits unimportant superficial outside things.I mean,as a girl,don�t you say:OK,whoever loves me,treats me best,that�s who I�m gonna stay with.I think the decision is definetly with the man.And,as a girl the task is to find out about that!! To find out what his plan for the future IS,what HE wants from you,if he just wants to have fun or if he,you know,if you are the right type for him or whatever.-----------Like,isn�t that the key part:finding out what guy is feeling? If he wants you as a commitment or not?----I�ve never been in love though,but I like guys who are dumb,but kind and know that.Because then they will feel that I am smarter than them and they will let me have a say in things.I want someone who is kind and thinks he�s dumb.Who thinks he like really knows nothing at all.Can�t be dumb enough!
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Andria - 2005-11-04 13:29:46
How do I know when it's love... when I realize I care more about his own happiness than I do my own. When I see something beautiful and it makes me think of him. When I smile all day for no reason. And, most importantly, when he'll kiss me first thing in the morning with crazy hair and no makeup and morning breath. That's love. :)
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Smed - 2005-11-04 15:46:53
You know what love is when you're in it. It's a pretty abstract concept.
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Pfirsich - 2005-11-04 16:14:17
OK,so-what do you mean? What do you mean,how do you know? Because of what you want to know? I�m being stupid,I�m not getting it. I guess it love if I want to touch the person. Cause,that never happens to me. I�m like allergic to everyone. ---Wait,I didn�t have it wronf! I had it right,what you meant WAS how you know if you�re being loved!! That is what you meant,what it�s like BEING loved!! That�s what you meant!!!!! Har,I was right.----Oh,and I also described it right:I feel loved when he lets me talk,when he doesn�t want to be the boss when it comes to ideas and talking and stuff.When he lets me be the smarter one and stuff.Like,he can still be the better person,you know,or the pretty one,that�s ok.That would be his field then.---Ha,I did say it right. I feel loved when he is so gentle mind-wise. When he wants to get my ideas.That never happened to me.Like:we are together.Functioning together and he lets me have the function of the smarter one.Usually the man wants to have that function,right? They have to be the stronger one in that field.
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Chris - 2005-11-04 23:13:53
Caught red-handed, I do read these things. And yeah, sometimes I even have the time to do them too! As for knowing when it's love, I really wish I could answer that. I used to know, but nowadays I'm not so sure. Read my current entry and you'll see why I'm having such a hard time. **HUGS!!**
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hissandtell - 2005-11-04 23:16:33
I rather respect Joseph Campbell's musings on love. He has a quote to the effect that, "You are not sacrificing yourself to the other person; you are sacrificing yourself to the relationship." One can have passionate love affairs and all the weeping and breast-beating that goes on with it, but in love one has a sense of responsibility - NOT possession - of the other, and turning over one's destiny to a dual destiny. Campbell talks about how in "Ulysses" Stephen is walking along the beach and wonders if he would forget his own self-protection to the degree of risking a swim out into the ocean to be at the mercy of someone whose power out there he would know nothing about - because when you rescue someone from drowning, you never know if they'll pull you down with them. "If you want the whole thing, the gods will give it to you. But you must be ready for it." Love, R xxx
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radiogurl - 2005-11-05 00:44:56
While I like hissie's interpretation, at this point in time I'm genuinely questioning if such a thing as love exists. Yeah, that's what a wonderful state of mind I'm in tonight. But for what it's worth, love some of your answers. And yes, S&M counts :-p
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Pfirsich - 2005-11-05 04:03:02
Yeah,possessive is my second nature...I always get possessive.Sorry about that.No,not really sorry at all.
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Jenn - 2005-11-06 00:18:02
Clicked through from a banner... read this all the way to the end, it was quite interesting. Thought I'd say "hello" as every time I click on an interesting banner I end up here lately.

How do you know when it's love? When you can drool on a person and they think it's cute rather than disturbing. ♥
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Orlith - 2005-11-07 13:48:45
How do I know when it's love? When I care more about him, than my own happiness. When I KNOW that I'm not happy with him, but that he would be devastated without me, I am willing to stay. I care more about keeping him happy, than me happy. Even though I may hate him at times for it, it's still the way it is. I call that love. True love, is only a fine line away from true hate... it requires the same amount of passion.
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lynx86 - 2005-11-08 04:22:23
i believe its love when i can honestly ssay theres many things i would do for that person that 9i would do for noone else. its love when they leave and you have an empty spot in your stomach (yes,i have had this happen,it makes you feel sorta as if youre hungry,but you know in your mind and heart that its not hunger,or something you can take care of.its love when you can think of them all day long and still want to think of them longer,dream about them,and their very existence is what keeps your very existence stable...its a feeling of completion...but mostly,its something different for us all.
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Asia - 2005-11-08 05:04:28
When the only one's arms I want around me in bed are his... When all his nuances I adore. When I see him and get this burst of excitement in my stomach, can't wait to talk to them, no matter how upset I am. When I anticipate him. When I'm scared and want only them there. When I see them and I simply just melt... oh God, I could go on and on.
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Dave - 2005-11-11 20:55:27
You know it's love when you realize that everything you do, every way you experience the world, is through the veil of them. "I wonder if she like canteloupe" as you're cutting the fruit. "I bet she'd find this funny" when you're watching a comedy on TV. "I wish she were here with me" all the time.
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