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Review:
Mehiel - 2005-11-06 15:47:53
I'm really scared for you. You shouldn't be in this position. For whatever reason, you were coerced into having sex with Mr. Lucky. And that's wrong. It doesn't matter that you live together; if one party doesn't want to, then having sex is wrong. You are in no way obligated to provide sex for this person, or anyone else for that matter. Moreover, if you were (even silently) saying the words "no" or "stop," that could be construed as rape. Maybe you should consider changing Mr. Lucky's name to "Mr. Sex Offender."
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art - 2005-11-06 15:54:16
i just started reading your stuff, so i really cant make an intelligent comment about this, and i dont know your situation. what if you talk to mr. lucky when he comes back? is that possible? i dont know. i know that communication should be first and foremost in any relationship. so theres my say. hope you have a good day. *hugs*
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chocolate chaos - 2005-11-06 16:24:39
*hugs* and im sorry about the setback in time. . may it pass quickly for you.....
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ms well - 2005-11-06 16:26:58
leave now. you dont need a man at the other end waiting for you.
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Connie - 2005-11-06 17:40:19
As I read through this one, I kept thinking, "Why don't you leave?" I feel kind of like the person who doesn't understand why a victim doesn't leave their abuser for thinking that, but having been through it, I know your situation isn't that bad anymore. I feel there must be some reason you're waiting. So, I can only hope that everything turns out well with whatever plans you must be making that require you to put up with Mr. Sex Offender's ignorance.
::Hugs:: if they're needed.
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radiogurl - 2005-11-06 18:28:16
You already know what I think, so I won't add to the grief by commenting further about your leaving. Just promise me, Findlay or not, that you will leave on the day of that deadline, even if it means camping out with me for a while. I saw the house I'll be moving to in a few more months - maybe not the style to which you're accustomed, but it's got one amenity you now lack: safety.
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moony - 2005-11-06 20:25:35
leave the rancid motherfucker. poison him with arsenic in his coffee. just get away and don't ever look back and have no regrets.
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Pfirsich - 2005-11-07 06:41:07
Hey! I wanted to hear about the sex part,too,dammit! You know I�m a voyeur!!!
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candoor - 2005-11-07 12:25:11
hug sweetheart, you are strong enough, even when you forget... and in those moments you forget, your friends are here to remind you...
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Asia - 2005-11-08 04:49:31
You are so strong, and admirable. I see your words and your life... and I see your beauty and bravery. No one should tear you down. Take from you, without concern for your feelings or your wants... I remember well, crying in the shower trying to wash off the dirt from a man that I had not wanted to touch me. They're right up there... in the comments. You need safety to function beautifully. We all do. Take the step?
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